Episode 13 - Finding your identity
Who are you beneath the roles, labels, and expectations placed on you?
Finding Your Identity is a gentle, thought-provoking podcast exploring what it really means to know yourself. Through honest conversation, reflective prompts, and therapeutic insight, this podcast invites you to reconnect with who you are beyond survival mode, relationships, and past experiences. Whether you’re feeling lost, changing, or simply curious about yourself, this space is here to help you come home to you.
Episode 12 - Are you a people pleaser? Do you find it hard to say no?
In this episode, we explore what people pleasing really is, where it comes from, and why it can feel so uncomfortable to put your own needs first. We’ll gently unpack the emotional patterns behind people pleasing and offer compassionate reflections to help you begin setting healthier boundaries - without guilt.
Episode 11 - Perimenopause vs Menopause
Perimenopause vs Menopause
So many women are struggling in silence unsure whether what they’re experiencing is perimenopause or menopause. In this episode, I break down the differences, common symptoms, and why so many women feel dismissed or confused during this stage of life.
We talk about the emotional impact, mental health changes, and why understanding what’s happening to your body matters. If you’ve ever thought “Is this just me?” - this episode is for you.
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Episode 10 - Understanding Autism
Join Mika Warne, MBACP , qualified counsellor and student psychotherapist In this episode of Understanding Autism, where we explore what autism really is beyond the stereotypes, labels, and misunderstandings. We talk about autism as a spectrum, what that means in everyday life, and why no two autistic people experience the world in the same way.
Whether you’re a parent, carer, professional, or someone wanting to better understand a loved one (or yourself), this episode offers clear, compassionate insight into autistic thinking, communication, sensory experiences, and emotional needs. We’ll also touch on common myths about autism and why listening to lived experience is so important.
Episode 9 - Self Care
Self-Care
Self-care is a term we hear often, but its meaning can easily become blurred or oversimplified.
In this episode, I explore self-care as something deeper than occasional treats or routines. We look at self-care as a compassionate way of responding to ourselves particularly during times of stress, emotional difficulty, or change.
I reflect on:
Why self-care can feel difficult to prioritise
The difference between practical self-care and emotional self-care
How self-care can be subtle, personal, and shaped by your circumstances
Gentle, realistic ways to support yourself when life feels demanding
This episode offers space to slow down, reflect, and consider what self-care might look like for you right now without pressure or expectation.
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Episode 8 - Living With Chronic Illness
Living With Chronic Illness
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Join Mika Warne, qualified counsellor, owner and founder of Meeks Counselling and Psychotherapy, for her fortnightly podcast exploring real conversations around mental health and emotional wellbeing.
In this episode, Mika offers a reflective discussion on what it means to live with a chronic illness. This episode covers common experiences, emotional impacts, and practical ways people cope and adapt. Offering insight for anyone living with long-term conditions or supporting someone who is.
Tune in, take a deep breath, and remember you are not alone.
Episode 7 - Seasonal Depression - Understanding SAD
Welcome to The Winter Blues: Understanding SAD or more commonly known as seasonal depression
As the days get shorter and the light fades earlier, it’s common to notice changes in our mood, energy, and motivation. For some people, these shifts can be quite mild - that sense of feeling a bit low or unmotivated as winter sets in.
But for others, the darker months can bring on something deeper, something known as Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD - a form of depression that follows a seasonal pattern, usually appearing in the autumn and winter months.
So what is SAD?
SAD is a type of depression that follows a seasonal pattern.
For most people who experience it, symptoms begin in the autumn as the days get shorter, and they often continue through the winter months, usually lifting again when spring returns.
It’s more than just feeling a bit fed up about the weather or missing the sunshine.
For some, SAD can really affect day-to-day life, how we think, how we feel, and even how we function.
The main trigger is a lack of natural daylight. When there’s less sunlight, it can disrupt the body’s internal clock - what’s known as our circadian rhythm and it can also affect levels of serotonin, the chemical in our brain that helps regulate mood, and melatonin, which helps with sleep.
So, when these systems get thrown off balance, we might find ourselves feeling more tired, more withdrawn, and less motivated than usual.
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Episode 6 - Bipolar Disorder
Bipolar disorder is a mental health condition that affects mood, energy levels and the ability to manage everyday life. People living with bipolar experience shifts between periods of low mood (depression) and high mood (mania or hypomania). These changes can feel unpredictable and overwhelming, but they are part of a recognised medical condition, not a personal failing.
Episode 5 - Empty Nest Syndrome
Empty nest syndrome
When the Nest Feels a Little Too Quiet
It’s a strange feeling, isn’t it? One day your home is full of noise, laughter, and endless laundry and then suddenly, it’s quiet. The kids have grown up and moved out into the world, just as we always hoped they would. But while we cheer them on from afar, many of us are left wondering… what now?
In this episode, I talk about Empty Nest Syndrome - that deep mix of pride, loss, and uncertainty that often arrives when our children leave home. It’s something so many parents experience but rarely talk about openly.
I share reflections on how this transition can bring up feelings of loneliness and identity loss, and how we can start to rebuild a sense of purpose beyond parenting. We’ll explore gentle ways to reconnect with yourself, nurture your relationships, and rediscover what brings you joy.
If you’ve found yourself standing in a suddenly quiet kitchen or missing the chaos you once wished away, this conversation is for you. You’re not alone in feeling this way and this new chapter doesn’t have to feel empty. It can also be the beginning of something deeply fulfilling.
Episode 4 - Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Understanding Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Join Mika Warne, qualified counsellor and founder of Meeks Counselling and Psychotherapy, for her fortnightly podcast exploring real conversations around mental health and emotional wellbeing.
In this episode, Mika takes a deep dive into Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), what it is, how it feels, and the impact it can have on daily life. She discusses the common signs and symptoms, the difference between everyday worry and anxiety disorders, and practical ways to manage and reduce anxious thoughts.
Whether you experience anxiety yourself, support someone who does, or simply want to better understand mental health, this episode offers insight, compassion, and grounded advice from a counsellor’s perspective.
Tune in, take a breath, and remember you are not alone.
Episode 3 - What Is Counselling?
What exactly is counselling – and what isn’t it? In this episode, I explore some of the most common questions people have about therapy and clear up a few of the biggest misconceptions.
Many people imagine counselling as someone giving you advice, telling you what to do, or “fixing” your problems. In reality, counselling is something very different. It’s about creating a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace. You don’t have to wait until you’re at breaking point, and you don’t even need a specific “reason” to come to counselling. Sometimes, simply wanting to understand yourself better is reason enough
I share some of my own experiences from when I was a student counsellor and how those early sessions shaped my understanding of what therapy can offer. I also talk through the different approaches I use in my work. From the deeper explorations of psychodynamic therapy, to the supportive and empathic stance of person-centred counselling, to the practical tools of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), I bring these elements together as an integrative therapist to meet the individual needs of each client.
You’ll also hear what typically happens in a counselling session and how I work with people in a collaborative way. Whether you’re completely new to the idea of therapy, considering it for yourself, or simply curious about how it all works, this episode offers an honest introduction to the counselling process
If you’ve ever wondered
What really happens in counselling?
Do I need a big reason to go?
What approaches do counsellors use?
How might counselling help me?
…then this conversation is for you
Episode 2 - Men’s Mental Health
Join Mika Warne - qualified counsellor as we shine a light on men’s mental health - a subject that’s too often left in the shadows. Society still places huge pressure on men to stay strong, keep quiet, and carry on, but the truth is that many are struggling silently with issues like stress, grief, burnout, relationships, and the weight of expectations.
This episode offers an honest, compassionate space to explore these challenges. We talk about what it really means to experience grief as a man, how burnout creeps in without warning, the impact of relationship struggles, and why opening up can feel so difficult. At the same time, we look at practical ways to start conversations, reduce stigma, and build support systems that work.
Whether you’re navigating your own mental health journey or want to better understand the men in your life, this episode is about breaking the silence. It’s a reminder that vulnerability is strength, that reaching out is a sign of courage, and that no man should have to carry the weight alone.
Episode 1 - Understanding Grief and Bereavement
Join Mika Warne, a qualified counsellor with a passion for supporting those navigating loss, as she explores the complex and often misunderstood journey of grief. In each episode, we’ll discuss the emotional, psychological, and practical aspects of bereavement, share coping strategies, and offer guidance for both those grieving and the people who support them. Whether you’ve experienced a recent loss or want to better understand how to help others, this podcast provides insight, compassion, and hope during life’s most difficult moments.